A couple of days out were planned for when I was away last week, visiting my family. It is bittersweet, going 'home'. I say home, because it is where I grew up, and where I return, quite regularly, though of course my own home is here in Cornwall. Bittersweet, because my Mum died very unexpectedly about 18 months ago, and 'home' is no longer the place it was. My Mum was the glue that held us together - she was vibrant, energetic, a gardener, cook, very accomplished horsewoman, adored mother and grandmother. A force to be reckoned with, and sometimes quite formidable! She is sorely missed by us all. I still expect her to walk in the room. So it's not easy, being there without her.
Days out are a chance to spend precious time with my sisters. Whenever I go up, G and I put a day in the diary to go off somewhere - we want good coffee, shops, thrifting, food, somewhere with charm. Last time we went to Lewes - to search out
Caroline Zoob (a bit of a disappointment. The shop is now closed, and the website is more inspiring) and
Bill's Produce Store. This time, we pondered between Hastings and Whitstable. We even had a mad moment when we thought we could do both in the day, but that would mean we did neither justice.

So
Hastings won....but we did stop off on the way in
Forest Row - there's a wonderful
Village Crafts shop, selling Rowan and Artesano Yarn, needles, myriad art supplies, cards, you name it, they stocked it. There's also
Bramble Corner Toy Shop, selling traditional toys and sweets (I couldn't resist purchasing a quarter of aniseed balls), books and moleskines. We then stopped at
Nutley Antiques - a great source of vintage enamelware, textiles and garden stuff at very reasonable prices.

I should add that my sister is the ultimate shopper when it comes to interiors-type shops, and clothes. I am a mere bystander, trailing along in her wake! So in fact, we didn't even get to Hastings until 2pm....

The two places on our list were
Made in Hastings and
Judges Bakery. Made in Hastings is a wonderful quirky shop selling locally-made crafts - cards, toys, bags, gifts, ceramics and more.

It's well worth a visit. The stock is really inspiring, and a little different from the usual stuff you seem to see everywhere these days.

I wanted to go to
Judges Bakery to check out the food and
bread. The bakery was taken over, and subsequently completely overhauled, by
Craig Sams and Jo Fairley, the founders of Green and Blacks. It's wonderful - great breads, sweet treats, local vegetables and other groceries. I defy you to come out empty handed! The thrift shops are also worth visiting - keen prices, and a few good finds. I have to confess it was also nice being driven - a sunny day in my sister's soft top, though I can't say I'd rely on the sat nav...coming back had a few more twists and turns than necessary!
Our other day out was to go to my eldest sister's degree show. After a major career change, she's about to graduate in
Furniture Conservation, Restoration and Decorative Arts at
Bucks New University. We went along to see the pieces she has worked on in her final year, which included a beautiful sewing box with a hand-printed paper lining. Part of the original lining was missing so she had to copy and re-print it by hand. The attention to detail and effort applied to each piece was inspiring. G and I also went and looked at the textiles show, which was beautiful. There were some stunning hand-printed silks, and fabrics layered with stitching, sequins and other embellishments. Photos were banned, but we did pick up the students' cards.

These are my favourites:

Today I walked up on the moor for the first time in months. In winter time the ground is very wet and waterlogged and is to be avoided, so it becomes a summer place for me. Blue skies and a clear view to the sea reminded me why I love it so much. Shortly after the dogs had cooled off in the stream we came across an adder basking in the sun, blocking our path. Fortunately I was in front and grabbed Walter's collar before he spotted it. Bessie, who's much older and slower, was quite a way back, bringing up the rear. As I kept hold of Waltz, I reached for my camera with my free hand, but I wasn't quick enough, the snake slithered away into the undergrowth.
Adders are very common here, though it's quite rare to see them. They have a very distinctive zig-zag pattern down their back. For a dog, an adder bite is potentially fatal, so I was very relieved I came across it before the dogs!